Love,marriage,relationship! and the family in law, 80 percent of the couple of today are divorced or separated because of the family in law, first a mother have her baby you take care of him/her everyday love your child of course that's what mothers do best love your child second teach him/her how to be a good person, and third let him/her be who haw they like stop seen a baby in your son, unfortunately most mothers when they son/daughters have a partner they feel like they won't be the center of attention no more!
at that time they forget to be happy for they son/daughters mothers most of the time forget that they has did what they had to do back then teach him/her how to be a good person when he/she was young but they feel like they really need to be fully part of he/her life so they go from been a mother to want to be the third partner! forgetting that a relationship/marriage is two people only! the third person no matter who they are will destroy the couple for good!
and most mothers believe to be the best friends of they daughters/son's so very often do interfere too much in they daughters/son's relationship/marriage been too much part of they daughters/son's everyday life often leads into divorce or separations while father in law always seat back and not saying too much but forgetting to protect they daughters/son's from they mothers the first protections love/marriage/relationship needs is protections from he/her family in law for not to be destroy or separated! believe it or not family can be the reason of separations,divorce,or broken love,So my advice pay attention of what he/her family do,or says in your couple's life, but just but don't pay them too much of attention is not good for your couple, all you could do is, not to see he/her family too much, do not let them participated all the time in your couple activities, don't let them interfere too much in he/her partner life! be the very first of he/he family...
Note:please don't take these writings at heart am not an expert thank you...
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